Thursday 13 - mistakes after he died

This is not nice to read.
So many mistakes...

I had to vent this.
Sorry.

1. Expecting me to be in tears during an unnecessary resuscitation, (He had already died, and our marriage was over 27 years ago, but we didn't have a legal divorce)
2. Asking me if it was my second, third or fourth husband because I didn't fall in peaces when he died. (I had to explain several times we saw it coming as his health was deteriorating for a long time.)
3. Putting money of a bankaccount that disappears on that bankaccount.
4. Closing a bankaccount 1,5 month earlier than requested.
   
5. Forgetting to relay a message of closed account to another department of the same bank.
6. Sending me a new insurance policy on that disappeared account
7. Insure me, my kids (not married, studying) and..... my partner.
8. Sending me mistake 4 and 5 again in another policy after taking notes during a phone conversation.
9. TransIP asking me all sorts of paperwork that not even the bank or the taxes need, including the ID and emailadres of Mr. J. (Told them that nor in heaven, nor in hell people can be reached by mail.)
10. Sending me instead of the requested plaster for over my sensor, some kind of medical foil that gets stuck to the sensor and needs to be removed after 5 days.
11. Sending me an envelope addressed to Mr.... expressing sincere condolances with the death.
    (No reaction given, even though I wanted to send it back with the message: no forwarding address known.)
12. Taxes said they would send the forms. Nothing received.
13. Hospital would call me back with infrmation bout the obduction.... No call received.

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About **Syl

Syl: "Life is a chain of challenges. Sometimes the largest challenges are we ourselves. Facing life, facing others and facing yourself requires either a worryless attitude or plain courage. Most of the time it is dealing with judgement. Maybe life is about getting rid of it."